Thursday 2 February 2012

kIsah kasih..kiSah dOngeng..

T.i.m.e  a.l.o.n.e  as always...


Most of da people i met somehow like to ask me dis question...how r u feel being raise as da only child in a family..?dun't u feel bored and lonely?are u happy with your life?HOw do u feel when u has no one to talk or play with when u at home?do i have everything i wants because there are no other kids to share with..?


Well..most probably people think being da only child is fun,really get spoilt by parents and grandparents, having full attention by parents, doesn't have to share things with other and gets all she wanted.huhu..frankly i could say yes tp bukanlah semua dapat jgk ye..! :) but all things happen with a reason..i believe in fate.


There are advantages and diavantages of being an only child..
True, i sometimes may feel lonely,.it's too quite in dis house.. :(
i felt jealous with friends too..when they story bout pillow fighting with their sisters..taekwondo with their abang,sharing and gossiping before slept..went to shop together, doing homework..make a cookies for rAYa time..


Well i think it's normal when i sometimes feel dat way..anyhow, i'm proud of myself. Eventhough i do not have siblings..but i trust myself because i learn to be very good at doing things on my own as well.! And saying that getting lots of love and attention from parents and grandparents is spoiling me is not true.They teaching me how to be good with people, how to respecting each other differences, how to be a responsible, caring and wellbeing , to be love and sharing with others..


From their guidance i know dat i'm a positive person..i have a gud friends and i can be alone if i want to be.i dunnot worry for being alone..because i can eat all chips in da bag alone..!;p


Being an only child does not mean that i must be a lonely child. Everyone needs to spend time alone, time with family and time with friends. Everyone needs time to think, time to share, time for work and time for fun. Positive thinking is most important when being alone ok..:)


"Whether you are an only child or not each person is alone in his or her mind and we all have to learn to get on with all the other people we meet in our daily lives."


But 1 negative things i detected from dulu till now..aku x pandai bergaduh,x pandai nak menipu dan  sometimes aku agak lurus bendul..!dats what my frens says..!mungkin sebab dari kecil aku x ada pengalaman berebut makanan dan tarik2 rambut dengan adik beradik kot...-_- 


Tp alhamdulliah..Allah menghadiahi aku dengan kehadiran seorang lelaki yang amat memahami,mencintai aku seadanya,.dan sangat mengambil berat dan dia adalah kisah kasih ku..walaupun dia slalu ckp aku banyak makan semut sbb lmbt paham..!'o' tp terima kasih Allah.


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